Friday, August 18, 2006

Connexions

Con-nex-ions..its such a conny thing at times.. in the sense that - one cant estimate if a new contact is going to be a 'good' or a 'bad' one..ofcourse, 'good' & 'bad' are perceptions, but none the less..

As we live our daily lives, we are constantly in the quest of finding someone new - someone we dont know.. the irony is, when we do find someone new, we try hard to find someone we both know!! Its all about commonality (if there is such a word)..

Connecting people - as Nokia puts it, is integral to a human - rather to society..in a way, it brings us closer to ourselves & helps others too..

At certain points in life, you start looking for people who were a part of your life @ one point, and vanished for various reasons..lets just say, neither of you bothered to keep in touch..and u suddenly have an urge to connect up with the past.. The urge to do this is so high that sometimes, the image we had of the person remains the same -no matter how many years back u knew this person.. a 'good' or a 'bad' image remains..

Connecting up like that can be fun, but, we dont realise that a part of our past is just a part of our past at times..& some relations are possibly best left in the past..

Its a quest or a risk..You decide!

9 comments:

Ananth said...

ah... i guess the answer to this one is kinda like the holy grail of physcology huh? os is it something else... ha! the answer to that question could also be the holy grail to phsycology... hmmm... wonder if there is a holy brail to physcology... then again connections are a good thing... but u gotta be careful, u just might get a "shock" due to a "short-circuit"... if u know what i mean... ;) (Ha! i love these multiple meaning things...)

Vikas said...

Well i think past is mixedbag with good and bad exp...i always move forward with my godlen moments of life and leave back nightmare which i came across...

i think its quest and risk both..it depends on u the way u treat ur past..there is a word call possitive attitude........

good post...but make it more simple


"Zindagi ke safar mein gujar jate hai jo mukaam woh phir nahi aate"

Vikas said...

@aparna...

hey i think i had made extra comment of "make it more simple"...iam sorry...

candid diary said...

A short story by Satyajit Ray tells about two school mates meeting after many years. The school mate who was had been notorious in school befriends the other man with good behaviour and then, discloses his identity.
Thinking about past I find that you have lost some of your past readers.

Everyman said...

Hey partner,

Yea...sometimes, the fizz that was there in the past isnt quite there when u try to resurrect past relationships..but i couldnt say for sure..I've got in touch with some of my best friends from school, but (maybe coz they are far off from where i am) its not quite the same..

zoxcleb said...

i know exactyl what u talking abt... been on my midn for a while..and now i've finally started reconnecting...

i guess it takes a couple of oceans to cross before it happens..

Yatish said...

wot do i say...deja vu all over again...

Arunima said...

sometimes the past just seem amazing and we get caught up in time but it is better to make it what it is, 'past'.

Vikas said...

@aparna

akele hai chale aavo jaha ho,
kaha awaaz de tumko ,kaha ho....

yeh tanhayi ka aalam usme par aap ka yeh gum.......

where ru buddy ?????